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The Covenant Conversation Starter: 20 Questions Every Couple Should Ask

The Covenant Conversation Starter

Some of the best conversations in a marriage never happen. Not because there is nothing to say, but because nobody knows where to start.

This free guide gives you 20 questions, grouped into four areas that shape a marriage: covenant and commitment, communication and conflict, forgiveness and repair, and intimacy and partnership. Some are easy, a few might be hard, but all of them are worth asking.

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What’s Inside the Covenant Conversation Starter

  1. 20 questions, organized into 4 sections, so you can go deep in one sitting or spread them across several date nights.
  2. Space to write, so you and your spouse can capture your answers, not just talk them through and forget.
  3. Scripture-rooted framing for each section, grounding the questions in something more lasting than a passing conversation topic.
  4. A guide built to be revisited, pull it out again in a year and see how your answers have changed.

Remember, you don’t need a perfect marriage to ask these questions, you just need to be willing to start. Pick one tonight, and see where it leads you.